Iguazu Falls...Is It Worth It?

The answer is yes, although it wasn’t an easy decision to make. For those of you who are not familiar with Iguazu Falls, it is the world’s largest waterfall which spans across three countries including Brazil, Paraguay, and Argentina. When I say largest, I mean most volume of water per second and it’s massive!

Though Iguazu is straight out of a postcard, my husband and I debated if it was worth the high price tag. Two-hour flights were going for $250 each and a seventeen-hour bus ride was not much cheaper. We always have to factor what we are going to do with our dog Posey before booking these side trips. When we’ve traveled in the past, we have learned that Posey prefers to stay home rather than being uprooted to somewhere new. Since she is potty trained on potty pads, we feel comfortable leaving her for a few days alone. 

After chatting with many locals about their must see places in Argentina, Iguazu Falls repeatedly came up. So we decided to go for it. Thankfully, Drew received an early 30th birthday present from my parents, which helped cover some of the costs. We booked our trip for 3 days and 2 nights in Puerto Iguazu, Argentina.

We decided to focus our time on the Argentina side of the falls for a few reasons:

  1. We only had a few days.
  2. There are expensive reciprocity fees to visit Brazil & Paraguay. We aren’t planning on visiting those countries throughout the rest of our trip, so it wasn’t worth the added cost.
  3. The Argentine side of Iguazu is more extensive and one can get up close to the falls. 

After our flight was delayed for a few hours, we finally made it to Puerto Iguazu. The first thing I learned about Iguazu is taxis are not cheap! Unlike in Buenos Aires, taxis in Iguazu don’t offer a mileage/minute flat fee, this allows taxi drivers to set their own prices. Expect to pay premium taxi prices for popular locations like the airport and the park.  You may want to look into renting a car if you plan on staying for longer than a few days.

After a 20-minute ride, our taxi pulled onto a dirt and cobblestone road. We had arrived at our hotel, La Aldea De La Selva Lodge, a rustic jungle lodge. I was immediately impressed with our hotel, which I found through Booking.com. I like to book my hotel rooms through Booking.com for a few reasons including free cancellations and “genius” booking perks. Once you become a “genius” booker, you get discounts on rooms and access to other promotions. I was able to upgrade us to a junior suite at La Aldea De La Selva Lodge for only $2 more! Read here to learn more about which other travel apps I like to use. 

We were escorted by staff to our room on a elevated wooden walkway. Our room backed into the jungle and featured a large porch with a comfy hammock. Because we arrived in Iguazu later than expected, we decided to explore the town and have lunch.

The town Puerto Iguazu is pretty small, and other than the park, there is not a whole lot to do there. They do have a casino, nature and animal reserves, and La Aripuca, a replica of the native Guarani people’s customs and natural habitat.

Early the next day we took a cab to Iguazu Falls park, which is only about 20 minutes away. We purchased our entrance tickets (around $22 USD each), grabbed a map of the park and set off. Even for a weekday, the place was packed! You can take a guided tours through the park although it didn’t seem worth it for a few reasons.

  1. The park is so easy to navigate without a guide.
  2. There are at least 50 people in each group.
  3. They move like molasses so if you like to walk quickly a tour is not for you.
  4. If you are interested in a tour because you want to learn more about the culture and environment, I would suggest a private tour. With that many people in a group, it’s almost impossible to be within earshot of the guide.

Instead of a tour, we spoke to staff at the information desk who were incredibly helpful. They gave us suggestions about which routes to take and when. Following their direction, we started our hike on the upper trail. To be honest, I was expecting it to be like a real hike with uneven terrain and steep hills. It’s not like that at all. In fact, most of the trails are raised platforms navigating you above the jungle floor, rivers, and waterfall ledges. There are a few staircases to help get the heart pumping but overall it’s a pretty mild hike. 

The upper trail of Parque Iguazu takes you on top the falls to overlook the force and scale of this wonder. The lower trail gets you up close so that you can feel the magnitude of the water literally hit you in the face. Iguazu is so incredible among the turquoise waters, lush jungle setting, natural rainbows, and the grandiose waterfalls that words can’t describe how truly spectacular and beautiful it is.

While walking through the park, we encountered monkeys, birds, and coatis, an animal similar to a raccoon. The coatis are adorable but like the raccoon they can be ferocious, stealing food, biting tourists and attacking each other. We decided to have lunch at the park, which was sort of a mistake. The options for food is pretty limited which included Subway sandwiches, empanadas, and other fried snacks. We settled for a small sandwich. During our lunch the coatis were up to no good, stealing unknowing tourist’s food when several monkeys came along. The monkeys ended up stealing the food from the coatis, who were not too happy. 

We finished our day with a boat tour to San Martin Island. Other boat tours are available that will take you up close to the falls, but the steep price tags discouraged us. You can also get soaked, and I wasn’t prepared to have my camera and cellphones destroyed. The one thing we did skip was the train that takes you up to "Devil’s Throat". The line for the train was at least an hour long and our feet were tired, or as Drew likes to say “Our kitten’s are mewing”. We also had scheduled to have our morning taxi driver come pick us up, which was stupid because he never showed up. I do regret not going to "Devil’s Throat" especially since we waited around for 45 minutes for our driver that never came. 

We were at the park for a total of 6 hours which was enough for us. It is certainly doable to see Argentinian side of the park in one day. 

We ended up taking a very expensive taxi ride from the park to our hotel and resting the rest of the afternoon. I even took a nap in our hammock! We had dinner at La Terraza, which was excellent. We split our favorite, grilled provolone and chorizo. I also had grilled shrimp with risotto and Drew had a tenderloin and fries. I would highly recommend this place. The service was outstanding and the food was delicious. We turned in early for our early morning flight back to Buenos Aires the next day. 

Overall Iguazu Falls is incredible and should be on everyone’s bucket list. The town is nothing to write home about but the park is worth the visit. You don’t need much time to experience the falls but do expect to pay a lot for your visit. 

If you are planning a trip to Iguazu, feel free to email me or comment below for more information. Be sure to check out the Globe Trotter Girls post "Things Nobody Tells You About Iguazu" for more dos and don'ts for visiting Iguazu.  

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Argentine Cooking Class

I love cooking! Food plays a big part in my life. I am the type of girl who plans my day around my meals. What am I going to make for dinner? Where am I going to eat for lunch? When I travel, I make food bucket lists, plotting out all of the restaurants I want to try. After my Week One – Buenos Aires post, my good friend Kathryn from San Francisco suggested we take a cooking class. She said it is a fun activity, a great way to experience the culture, and a skill you can apply back home. I began researching Argentine cooking classes and found several options including Tierra Negra Cooking Classes, Cecilia D’Imperio, and Cook Abroad. Eventually, I stumbled upon Norma Soued’s Argentinean Cooking Class through The Travel Chica’s blog. The location, menu, and the price that Argentine Cooking Class offers fit exactly what I was looking for. After reaching out to the Norma, she was quick to respond and offered a winter discount. Score! I begged Drew to come with me and we signed up for the following weekend. 

On a chilly Saturday morning, Drew and I arrived in Belgrano, a northern neighborhood of Buenos Aires, for our Argentinian cooking class. Those who know me understand I am not a morning person so, of course we were running late but we were able to hop into a cab and managed to make it on time. We arrived at a well maintained 70’s style apartment building and were ushered upstairs by our host. We were greeted by Norma, a sweet woman in her mid-50’s who told us her phycology practice pays the bills but sharing in Argentinean cooking classes two times week is her passion. We were introduced to Maud, our cooking classmate originally from France and currently living in Buenos Aires. She has been working in the city for almost a year as an apartment finder for expats. 

We sat down and started class with a glass of water and briefly reviewed the recipes we were to prepare. The menu included carne (beef) empanadas, traditional lentil stew, and alfajores, a lemon sugar cookie with dulce de leche filling. We washed our hands and headed into the kitchen. Norma told us we would be working on the lentil stew and the empanada filling at the same time since they shared many of the same ingredients. Norma had prepped in advanced some of the menu items including soaking the lentils, chopping the chorizo for the stew, dicing the white onions and measuring out the raisins. Drew started chopping red and green peppers and I sliced green onions, squash, and hard boiled eggs. Maud sautéed all the onions and peppers in one pan. Once they were soft/sweating, Maud added half the mixture into the pot of cooking lentils and then the squash and chorizo. We cooked the ground beef in the original pan and finished by throwing in the raisins and hard-boiled eggs.

We let the carne mixture cool while the lentil stew cooked. We moved into the study to start making the alfajores cookie dough. Norma explained the different ingredients and we measure out the dry and wet ingredients into separate bowls. Drew was in charge of mixing and I slowly added the dry ingredients. When the dough was set, Norma brought out the carne empanada filling and chilled empanada wrappers. Norma walked us through the process of filling the wrappers, sealing and braiding the edges, and then we attempted to recreate the same process. After we finished all the empanadas, we brushed the outside with an egg wash which gives that distinct empanada shell. We moved back into the kitchen and put the empanadas in the oven. 

While the empanadas cooked and the lentil stew slowly simmered, we took out the alfajores dough from the fridge. Norma split the dough in half, floured the surface and rolled out the dough to a quarter inch thick. We took turns cutting the cookie dough and placing it on a cookie sheet. While the cookies cooked in the oven, Norma brought us back to the study. She explained that the cookie we made would be for the next class and the cookies we would fill were made by the previous class. We spread sweet and sticky dulce de leche onto a cookie and placed another cookie on top. To finish, we rolled the alfajores in grated coconut. 

After our cooking lesson, we sat down in the living room for our feast. We tried two Argentinean wines, Malbec and Torrontes. Malbec is one of my favorite red wines! Norma and her assistant brought out the lentil stew and poured everyone a bowl. The stew was hot, thick, hardy and perfect for our chilly afternoon. It was so tasty that I had a second bowl. After the stew, we tried our empanadas, which were hot, flakey, and rich. Norma said she liked to dip her empanadas in chimichurri, a dry seasoning mixed with olive oil and red wine vinegar. It helped cut some of the richness and added extra spice and flavor.

After having too many empanadas, Norma brought out her Mate (MAH-tay) cups and thermos. Yerba Mate is a highly caffeinated tea containing several vitamins, minerals, amino acids, and antioxidants. Mate is social activity in Argentina. According to Guyraki “The first step of the ceremony is the preparation of the gourd. Typically, the cebador (mate server) prepares mate for a friend or a group of friends. The cebador drinks the first one or two gourd-fulls, testing the waters to ensure that only a smooth running mate is shared. Then the gourd is refilled with water and passed counter-clockwise with the bombilla (straw-filter) facing the recipient. Each person drinks the entire gourd: "you share the vessel, not the liquid."  The recipient of the gourd has as much time as needed to finish the gourd-full. After the last few sips of the mate are gone, the gourd is returned with the bombilla facing the cebador.  The gourd is refilled with hot water and follows around the circle, continuing in this fashion until the mate is.  If someone has had enough mate, they simply say gracias (thank you) to indicate that they are finished.” 

At first, I didn’t really like the taste of Mate. It was bitter and grassy tasting but it grew on me after the second cup. Mate was especially good with the fresh alfajores! What I do like about mate is that it has similar amount of caffeine to coffee, but it doesn’t make me feel jittery or upset my stomach. Since our class, Drew and I have each gotten our own Mate cups from the San Telmo market.

Overall, cooking Argentinian food was fun and a wonderful experience. If you ever visit Buenos Aires, I would highly recommend booking a cooking class with Norma. She is friendly, speaks English well, the class is affordable and the food is delicious! Not only did I enjoy cooking each dish, but I also loved learning about the culture and traditions of Argentina. I am looking forward to making all of the dishes again for my friends and family!

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June 2016 Buenos Aires

The saga continues with our AirBNB apartment. The apartment strikes back. Here’s a quick recap of what’s been happening. After a month in Buenos Aires we decided to have a cleaning lady tidy up our rental apartment. Afterwards, she accused our dog of urinating on the hardwood floors, which actually turned out to be a water leak in the plumbing. We also found A LOT of mold in the apartment. To get the whole scoop, check out my post Week 4 & 5 Buenos Aires.

We informed our host about the situation and after a few days a contractor came over to assess the apartment’s condition. He determined the water leak was not a big deal and they could wait to fix it after our stay was done in July. About a week later we noticed that the water leak was spreading to more areas within the apartment. When we stepped on some of the floorboards water was actually shooting out of the floors! We demanded the contractor come over again and address the issue immediately. They got to work quickly by breaking open walls, tearing out the bathtub, replacing pipes, and fixing the water pressure in the bathroom sink. After three days of dusty and noisy construction, the bathroom was fixed and the apartment was a messy disaster. One day after the contractor left, the hot water tap in the bathroom sink came undone, spewing water all over the bathroom. This forced us to turn out off the hot water, and the contractor couldn’t come back for several days, meaning no showers or baths. The contractor came back and “fixed” the bathroom sink, and within only about 5 hours for the sink to broke again. After a scathing email to our host, the contractor came back the next day and replaced both sink taps. Hopefully, this is the end to our current apartment drama, although the massive amounts of mold still pose a threat. Thankfully we are leaving this apartment in about 3 weeks and moving on to a new, modern apartment in Santiago, Chile.

Despite the issues with our apartment, we have been having a fantastic time in Buenos Aires. We attended several InterNations events, including beer at Cerveza Old Mule, fish and chips dinner  at an English speaking event at Chipper, and mingling about at a happy hour event at Snatch Bar. Being a part of InterNations has opened us up many new experiences and we have met a lot of wonderful people from all over the world.

One night we decided to go see an opera at the world famous Teatro Colon. Neither my husband or I had ever been to the opera and Buenos Aires was the perfect place to experience it. We were lucky to buy our tickets online the night before. The tickets were pretty cheap (around $30 USD) even though we only had a partial view of the stage. If I had to do it over again, I probably would have spent the extra money for better seats since we were basically leaning over the railing to get a good view. Although we didn’t have the best seats, we still had a great night. We picked up our tickets an hour before the show and decided to grab drinks at a nearby hotel bar, Patio #378. Obviously a Manhattan for Drew and a Pisco Sour for me.

The opera was incredible. Setting was in ancient Greece, Dido and Aeneas is a story about love and loss. The Queen of Carthage, Dido, is forsaken by the Trojan prince, Aeneas. Overcome by the grief of her loss, she dies of a broken heart. The performance was gripping from the very start. At one point the singing performers were floating and swimming in a large tank of water while their gauzy clothes glided around them, creating beautiful ethereal movements. The rest of the performance was filled with stunning costumes, beautiful dancing, and incredible voices. In case you are interested in learning more about Dido and Aeneas, here is a preview.

After the theater, we had dinner at La Estancia Asador Criollo, a traditional asador restaurant just a few blocks from Teatro Colon. An Argentinian Criollo Spit, a large standing barbecue, stood in the window roasting three large racks of ribs. Once we were seated, we were greeted by a sweet older man. We ordered a 5 course special that included a bottle of wine, carne empanadas, salad, grilled provolone with chorizo sausage, an assorted platter of grilled meats, and of course, dessert. The food was amazing and we were impressed when our meat platter came out on a sizzling grill. My favorite was the grilled provolone and chorizo sausage. It was so rich and flavorful! Everything was even more flavorful with Argentine chimichurri on a crunchy toasted bread roll. We were so full that we boxed up most of our entree meat platter although I still managed to eat my dulce de leche flan.

The following day we decided to escape the rain and cold by visiting the Museo Nacional de Bellas Artes.  It is an international and local art museum in the Recoleta neighborhood. Before the museum we had lunch at a nearby burger restaurant called Dellepiane. The food was okay but it was no comparison to our favorite burger joint, La Cresta.  We spent the afternoon taking in the renaissance, baroque, impressionism, and naturalism paintings from all over the world including famous works of art from Monet, Van Gogh, Manet, and Rembrandt.

One weekend we looked into seeing a tango show. While doing research online, I saw that prices for a dinner tango show were upwards of $150 USD per person and the reviews for the food were terrible. Through my investigation, I found a small list of the Top Tango Shows in Buenos Aires from Travel and Leisure. On the list was Centro Cultural Borges, which offers inexpensive, yet world class tango shows 4 nights a week. The show doesn’t include dinner but the ticket price was a fraction of the cost at only $25 per person. They don’t sell tickets online, so the day of the show we walked to Centro Cultural Borges to purchased our tickets. Once we had our tickets we decided to window shop in a beautiful mall connected to the cultural center on Floridia street. Later in the evening, we came back for our tango show, Bien de Tango. Our seats were great and the show was filled with mesmerizing dancing, extravagant costumes, and a live orchestra including a very talented accordion player. The accordion player might have been the star of the show. It was an incredible experience I will never forget.

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To finish up June, I took a salsa lesson with a small women’s group from InterNations at La Viruta. Though our trip has been amazing, it’s also been difficult being away from our friends and family. My girl’s night out was the perfect medicine. Afterward, Drew met me for dinner at Nola, a Creole restaurant in Palermo. We ordered spicy gumbo and the daily special, chicken and waffles. It was the most incredible and delicious meal we had so far in Buenos Aires, especially the sweet and salty chicken and waffles. We will definitely be back!


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Dos and Don'ts of Professional Event Planning

Before leaving it all behind to travel in South America, I was a professional Event Planner for several high-end, fast paced venues in San Francisco, CA. I learned a lot about dealing with clients, navigating the business world and the event planning process. I had some amazing highs and some painful low moments in my career, but I came out the other side stronger with a new found love of sharing my passions and knowledge. Here are my dos and don’ts of professional event planning. 

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Respect peoples budgets

I started as an event planner in the height of the recession. The hospitality industry definitely took a hit. Regardless, it seemed like people were choosing to spend their money on a great experience. Companies were still hosting holiday parties, meetings, and business dinners. People were still celebrating major life events such as weddings, birthday parties, and baby showers. I learned fast that although these events were still happening, the “purse strings” weren’t as open as they may have once been and every event is going to have a different bottom line. This is especially true for social events. You are often working with a host who is paying for the event with their hard earned, hard saved money. It’s important to be respectful of their budgets and help find ways to cut back if needed.

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Be afraid to stick to the rules

Clients will sometimes want to push the rules. Whether it’s extending their party members, hanging decorations, congregating in the lobby, or not wanting to pay for service staff, it can put you in a difficult situation. I try to understand where they are coming from, but my job is to enforce the policies. I do it to protect myself because I know that if I stick to the rules my bosses will back me up. If I don’t enforce the rules, then I could jeopardize my job, the safety of our staff, and the success of the event. If a client ever has a strange request, I always involve my superior. It shows that I am going to bat for my client and takes the heat off of me for making the ultimate decision.

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Be patient

As an event planner, you will often work with clients who are not professional event planners. It could be an Executive Assistant who is helping their boss plan a company dinner, a bride planning her special day, or a Groom’s Mother planning a rehearsal dinner to impress her guests. It’s important to be patient throughout the planning process. You will get the same questions asked a million times and some odd requests. Some days it will make you want to tear your hair out as your cry and laugh hysterically like a maniac. Trust me, I’ve been there! Take a few deep breaths, take a walk around the block, and center yourself before going back to work. If you understand that they aren’t professionals, you’ll have an easier time walking your clients through the planning process.

Be unresponsive

Nothing is more frustrating for clients than working with a planner who never responds. I’ve been on both sides of event planning and I am amazed at how unresponsive people can be. It’s downright unprofessional! If you really want to make your clients happy and impress them, communicate in a timely manner. If I am ever too busy to get back to someone right away I will write them a simple email saying “I wanted to let you know that I received your email. I am having a very busy day today working on an urgent matter. I will get back to you shortly. Is there a good time we can schedule a time to discuss this further?”. They often appreciate the honesty and are happy to know that you’ve seen their request and have it on your agenda.

Give clients alternate options

Sometimes your client's first option is not available. When this happens, don’t turn the business away; Often they are flexible on the date of their event. Look at the dates that surround their choice to see if another day would work for them. Luckily I worked for venues that had multiple rooms so I was also able to give them other venue options. Even if the client is not able to move dates or has to have a specific room in mind, telling them about other options and availability showed you are trying to accommodate them. I would often receive requests from a potential client months or even years later for a different event.

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Assume you know everything

I had been in the Event Planning business for about 3 years when I started working for a yacht club and thought I was a pro. Boy was I wrong! I had a lot to still learn, especially when it came to Audio Visual. The first company I worked for used an outside AV company who worked directly with the client on their needs. At my next job, we provided the AV in-house. I started getting complicated requests, like having multiple TV’s playing or using multiple microphones at the same time. Sometimes it would be easier to just say, “yes, we can do that” or “no, that’s not something we can do” but I had to learn. In order to understand our AV capabilities, I reached out to my set-up team to explain the logistics. After a while, I started to have a better grasp. By using my set-up team as a learning resource, I became a stronger planner and communicator for both my clients and staff.

Keep your clients aware

Like I mentioned before, many of my clients are not professional event planners, so it’s important to keep them informed of your policies. When I sent my clients the contract, I always included an email detailing the timeline requirements; such as the menu selection due 1 month prior, final details due 2 weeks prior and a final head count due 1 week prior. Since most people forget, I also followed up about 2-4 weeks prior to the first deadline to remind them of their specific due dates and request to schedule a time to finalize their event details. Food and beverage minimums are also important to keep track of. Once the details are finalized, I would send my clients an estimated cost breakdown. This would give them an understanding of the overall price but also gave me the opportunity to remind them if they aren’t meeting the minimum costs.

Overbook yourself

The prospect of booking new business can put a “blind spot” on what your facility can actually handle. One of the biggest issues my with companies’ was having enough banquet staff to service all of the events I booked. It wasn’t only the servers that struggled during busy times, the kitchen team struggled to put food out on time and our set up team would make mistakes. Some months I had a huge financial budget to meet, so I would book everything that came across my desk. During these times, I learned to turn down business that was not worthwhile.  My Pro tips: Leave plenty of time between events for your set up team to flip the rooms. If you have multiple parties on the same day, try to have your clients select similar menus. Have your chef create a smaller menu for the high season (ie. Holiday menus). Hire temporary staff or seasonal staff well in advance. Having three dinners starting at the same time puts your kitchen staff in an impossible situation, so try staggering event start times helps alleviate problems.

Be detailed and communicate

Having a detailed event order, sometimes known as a Banquet Event Order (BEO), is key to a successful event. Each event has their own specific needs and communicating these requirements is a significant part of an Event Planner’s job. You should take this a step further by communicating the specific details of the BEO to different departments. Most venues have a weekly or bi-weekly BEO meetings to discuss the basics and details of events with department leaders. This is a great time to ask questions and delegate tasks. The day of the event, the execution falls into the hands of other departments like the kitchen, set up and service staff. It is  important to interact with each department during this time. I always check the setup of the rooms, test audio visual equipment, and confirm any fine details with the team. I talk to the Chef to make sure we are running on time and remind the kitchen of special requirements like dietary restrictions and vendor meals. I also check in with the front desk staff to make sure our reader board is correct and communicate delivery details. When the service staff is onsite, I go through the BEO in detail. This gives me a chance to answer any questions and recap specific details of the event. Sometimes it is hard to trust that other people will do the job right. If you have an accurate detailed Banquet Event Order, clearly communicate the client’s needs to each department, and follow up the day of the event, you will create a positive occasion for the client, the company and yourself.

Get defensive

Issues will arise throughout the planning and execution of events. Often times they are out of your control; the room wasn’t set up correctly, a staff member was rude, or the food was late. It’s easy to get defensive and make excuses, but once it’s at this point the client doesn’t care about your explanations. It comes back to understanding your clients want to feel heard. If you are apologetic, empathetic, take responsibility and offer a fair refund, your client will have a higher chance to come back. According to a study by the Carey Institute of Business at Arizona State University in 2013, when businesses offered an apology with fair compensation, the customer satisfaction doubled from 37% to 74%! Clearly, empathy over defensiveness is the best way to deal with problems. 


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Week Four & Five - Buenos Aires

We’ve been getting out more and more the last few weeks even though winter is definitely upon Buenos Aires. It’s been raining a lot and the temperature has dropped to the low 50’s.

Drew wanted to find a grocery store that sold turkey deli meat. After some research online, he found Jumbo Supermarkets. The nearest Jumbo is in the nearby port-side neighborhood of Puerto Madero, about 25 minutes away. One late afternoon we set out in the drizzling rain to find the upscale supermarket. We found more than we expected! A Wholefood style store on the bottom floor of a brand new high-rise. We loaded up on deli meat, gourmet cheeses, fresh sandwich rolls, canned black beans, peanut butter, and craft beer. We wandered each aisle for an hour & half and loaded up on over $100 in food!

A few days later, we attended our second InterNations event, a small dinner at Siamo nel Forno, a Napolitano style pizza restaurant. Check out my recent post to read about our first InterNations event.

We arrived at Siamo nel Forno in Palermo and were warmly greeted by the group. After introductions, we learned that our dinner companions came from all over the globe including Argentina, Italy, Israel, Chile, and Brazil. As the beer started flowing, the group chatted about work, our world travel experiences, and hometowns. It got pretty confusing when our group started conversing in multiple languages including English, Spanish, Italian, and Portuguese, though they made a conscious effort to speak in English for us. They even gave us some great advice about our upcoming trips to Patagonia and Atacama.

Drew and I ordered the “Margherita con Salsiccia”. The thin crust pizza was topped with tangy marinara sauce, rich pork and fennel sausage, fresh buffalo mozzarella and basil which came piping hot out of the Italian wood fire oven. Siamo nel Forno’s pizza stands out among Buenos Aires’ saturated pizza market with its traditional and unique pizza toppings. Each pizza is made with high-quality ingredients imported from Italy. It is certainly on par with some of our favorite pizza places in San Francisco like Tony’s and Gioia and is by far the best pizza we have had in Buenos Aires.

A few days later, Drew and I decided to have a date night. Earlier in the week, we explored the Westside of the neighborhood. We found a cute tree-lined street full of restaurants, bakeries, and ice cream parlors and decided to head there for our night out. After viewing the menu at a few bistros we chose to have dinner at a charming restaurant with an old world vibe called Club Social. We were greeted by our friendly and stunning waitress, who helped us decipher the menu. We split a Caesar salad to start. I ordered a pisco sour and oso bucco with creamy risotto. Drew ordered a beer and ribs with a baked potato. We had ourselves quite the feast and had the leftovers boxed up.

After dinner, we decided to have a nightcap at our neighborhood speakeasy bar called Doppelgänger. They had a huge list of specialty cocktails broken into categories like martinis, whiskey cocktails, creamy cocktails, sparkling cocktails, unique cocktails, and citrus cocktails. Drew ordered an old fashion and I had myself a vodka citrus cocktail. Doppelgänger delivered awesome cocktail and interesting people watching with lots of PDA.

The rest of the week was slow for us as we dodged the rain, cooked, and watched YouTube. I caught up on my guilty pleasures, Dancing with the Stars and the Bachelorette. We decided to hire a cleaning lady our AirBNB host recommended to tidy up our apartment. For $20 she would clean the apartment and water the plants for 4 hours. While the cleaning lady came, we put Posey in her Sherpa and set out for happy hour at a local brewery, Antares. We drank a few pints and shared an order of nachos. After the brewery, we decided to go to dinner. Though it was early for dinner by Argentina’s standards, we found an open nearby Indian restaurant called Delhi Masala. I ordered Masala tea with milk, which is made with cardamom, cloves, peppercorns, star anise, ginger, and cinnamon. We split an order of chicken masala, saffron rice, and garlic naan bread. We told our waitress that we wanted the chicken to be muy picante (very spicy). When our food arrived, we dug in. The food was pretty good although the chicken was not spicy. Luckily, we were given a few sauces including Raita, a cucumber and yogurt sauce, and a spicy paste. The paste helped kick up the spice level a few notches.

We came home to clean apartment and a sleepy dog. Unfortunately, a few days later our AirBnB host sent us a message saying that the cleaning lady complained about the condition of the apartment. She claimed that Posey had peed and we had ruined the apartment. She even accused us of stealing her sheets and couch cover! We were totally flabbergasted by these allegations. We have been diligent about taking Posey out to go to the bathroom and the apartment was spotless after the cleaning. I took photographs of the “condition” and of all the sheets and couch cover. I wrote her back disputing the claims and sent pictures. Later that night, we received a message saying she still believed that Posey had peed and that she was taking it to AirBnB. I asked where the cleaning lady claimed to find the dog urine and I was told it was under the desk in the office/closet area. Our host told me the area had been cleaned with bleach. Then she hit us with a $300 fee to have the cleaner come once a week and pay for the bedding and rugs cleaned twice throughout our stay. We had 72 hours to counter or pay.

Before responding, we decided to examine the area where the “urine” was found and what we discovered truly shocked us! We didn’t find any evidence (smell or stains) of dog urine. However, we did realize there is a ton of mold, water damage, and water leaking! The entire wall under the desk was, and still is, bubbling with mold and water damage. There is water leaking through the seams in the floor and into the bookcase resting against the wall. I took pictures of the evidence and wrote my response. We then wrote AirBnB our side of the story detailing of the current situation. We offered $40 to have the cleaning lady come two more times throughout our stay. Then we waited…

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9 Tips to Survive Abroad Without Knowing the Language

Traveling to a foreign country is always so exciting but it can also be incredible intimidating if you don’t know the language. Nothing is worse than feeling completely lost and alone while being so far away from home. Though English is spoken worldwide by 1.5 billion people, you are still likely to find yourself in a situation where no one understands you while traveling abroad. Whether it's ordering food at a local café, telling the taxi driver your destination, or asking a street vendor the price of that amazing leather handbag, knowing how to get by can be very useful. Here are some tips I have picked up throughout my travels in Europe, South America, and Middle East to help me survive abroad without knowing the language.


1.    Carry a small notebook and pen

This has saved me so many times! When I was in Athens, Greece my friends and I were taking a ferry to a smaller island and needed to get to the port. Our taxi driver couldn’t understand us or where we were trying to go. I pulled out a piece of paper and wrote down the port name to show the driver. It was easier for him to visually see the words than it was to try and understand our sad attempt at the Greek language. Ever since then, I always travel around with a small notebook. I also use my notebook to draw simple and universal symbols like a toilet or dollar sign to communicate the bathroom or bank. A cross or waves can help you communicate local sites such as a church or the beach. Playing Pictionary might be an easier and less painful way to get your point across.

2.    Have a few key phrases in your back pocket

Learning a few common sayings before your trip is a great way to feel confident while traveling abroad. I like to know how to say a handful of basic phrases such as “yes”, “no”, “where is…”, “how much is…”, “please”, “thank you”, “sorry” and “Do you speak English?”. Making an effort to speak in the native tongue will get you very far in most countries and help you survive your trip abroad. Speaking of in your “back pocket”, carrying a travel size phrase book is very helpful, especially if you aren’t great with languages. If you prefer the digital route, check out the IStone app. IStone is a digital phrasebook that teaches more than 300 everyday phrases involving all the aspects of traveling. It is limited on the number of languages, however they have recently added Spanish and German.

3.    Download travel apps

Speaking of apps, when I studied abroad almost 10 years ago, having easily access to unlimited information wasn’t an option. Now when I travel, I have my smart phone loaded with handy apps to help me communicate and understand the country I’m visiting. I recommend Google Translate, which interprets words and phrases in over 50 languages. Here in Argentina I am constantly using Google Translate, especially at the grocery store and when eating out. Narrowing down 15 types of “crème” to find sour cream is next to impossible without Google Translate. Some other travel apps I constantly use are TripIt, XE Currency, Skyscanner, Hopper, TripAdvisor, Rome2Rio and WhatsApp. Keep an eye out for my future post about my top travel apps. 

4.    Hire a local guide or book a tour

Hiring a local guide can be relatively inexpensive in some countries and is a great way to learn about the culture and history of an area. When I travel, I enjoying doing touristy things but also I like to see how the natives live their day to day lives. A local guide can give you a glimpse of the local life and help communicate for you throughout your visit. As a woman with fair skin, blond hair and green eyes, there are some countries that it might be necessary to hire a guide for safety reasons. I also recommend booking an English speaking tour group. Often inexpensive and usually including transportation, tour groups are a fantastic way to learn about the history and culture of the area you are visiting. When I was visiting my family in Jerusalem, Israel, I paid for an English speaking tour of the old city. Though I could have explored the area by myself, being part of a group tour made me feel secure. I learned so much about the history and culture of Jerusalem from my guide and I even got to try fresh pita bread right from the oven!

5.    Hand Gestures

Non-verbal communication is the most universal language and unbelievably helpful when traveling abroad! Whenever I am in a foreign county, I use hand gestures all the time. Nonverbal communication, like pointing, can help to decipher directions from a helpful local or assist in communicating a menu order. Miming or charades can also be a great way to get your point across. Be sure to research hand gestures prior to your travel because some hand gestures have unique meanings that are specific to the culture. This leads me to the next tip.

6.    Understanding cultural etiquette

As mentioned above, some hand gestures such as the okay sign or thumbs up can be seen as offensive in some cultures. It’s important to investigate the national response to certain hand motions and socially acceptable communication styles of the country you are visiting. While traveling in Argentina, we learned that their definition of personal space is a lot closer than Americans are used to. They also give a kiss on the cheek to say hello and good bye. Japan is known for being very conscious about etiquette and manners whereas Brazil is very laid back. Knowing the basic cultural etiquette will keep you from getting yourself in a sticky situation.

7.    Talk with a concierge

Whenever I travel and stay in a hotel, I always talk with the concierge. They have incredible insight to the area and are always friendly. They are knowledgeable about local attractions, nearby restaurants, and booking tours. I’ve even gone into hotels that I’m not staying at to ask their concierge for directions when I am lost. The concierge often speaks English and is happy to help point you in the right direction. They are also great with arranging transportation. When we were in Dubrovnik, our flight was leaving incredibly early the next day and we needed a ride to the airport. We went and spoke with our concierge about our transportation possibilities. She offered us a variety of options including a black car, taxi, and shuttle bus with pricing for all options. We opted for a taxi. Our concierge not only arranged for the taxi pick up but also an early morning wake-up call so we didn’t miss our flight.

8.    Maps

First thing I do when I arrive in a new city is grab a paper map. It’s super old school and you may stand out as a tourist if your obvious about using it, but it can come in handy. When I travel, I like to take public transportation. Paper maps illustrate public transportation routes, indicating direction and stops. You can usually find free maps at airports, tourist information offices and train/bus stations. If you prefer to go with a digital map, Google maps now offers offline map downloads. TripAdvisor also features downloadable offline map of major tourist area. I like to use TripAdvisor because you can save local restaurants, hotels, and things to do which show up on their offline map.

9.    Figure out transportation from airport

Nothing is more stressful than arriving at the airport or train station and not knowing how to get to your hotel. Before coming to Argentina, we decided to hired a taxi driver to come pick us up from the airport and take us to our Airbnb. Usually we would take public transportation or pick up a cab at the airport, however we felt hiring a taxi driver ahead of time would be best for our circumstances. Partially because we read to be cautious about taking random taxis from the airport and we had just traveled 35 long hours with a dog (read about our first week here). When we went to Amsterdam on our honeymoon, I was much more relaxed about transportation because I had been to Amsterdam once before while studying abroad. I knew that public transportation from the airport to the city center was extremely easy to navigate. Of course, I grabbed a free map which helped us navigate the metro system to our hotel. When arranging for transportation from the airport I always consider the following: public transportation accessibility, taxi costs and safety, the day and time of arrival, and distance. If you are arriving late at night or on a holiday, it may be best to take a taxi because sometimes public transportation is limited at night, on weekends, and holidays.


I hope these tips come in handy for you as much as they have for me! How do you get by without knowing the language? 

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Week Two & Three - Buenos Aires

After an exciting week one, Drew and I have started settling into life in Buenos Aires. In our former life, we were sort of homebodies and to be honest, not much has changed. We love to cook together, watch TV, & play with Posey. I know what you are thinking, this “shut-in” is writing about her adventurous travel experiences?

Fun with Posey

Determined not to fall into a similar routine, I started researching expat groups in Buenos Aires. The first result on google was a group called InterNations. I signed myself up and began searching through the site’s features. InterNations has chapters worldwide and offers smaller subgroups based on your interests. The subgroups meet up about once a month all over the city, however when I clicked to find out where the events were being located, I realized you have to pay a monthly or yearly fee to be an active member. Not ready to commit to payment, I moved onto my usual internet activity of Facebook, twitter, and TMZ.

A few days later I check out the website again and noticed that InterNations was hosting an “official” event the following day. The official events allow basic members to attend these events for a small fee. I signed us up and looked for the best way to get there. Located in Palermo SoHo, Borges 1975 calls itself a bar, theater and bookstore. We decided to walk from San Telmo to Palermo, even though it said it was an hour and half walk. I thought to myself, it’s a great way to get to know the city, but in reality I was feeling anxious about trying to navigate the subway system during rush hour.

I am not sure why I’ve been feeling more intimidated on this trip than I have on any other trip. I am very comfortable using public transportation. In fact, there have been long stretches in my life where public transit is the only form of transportation I have. While studying abroad in Florence, Italy and throughout my time in San Francisco, I was limited to riding the bus or Muni (in SF). I rode the Eurorail throughout Italy and even took an overnight train to Paris. I’ve ridden the subways in NYC, Paris, & Rome. For our honeymoon in Croatia I hardly planned our transportation before getting there. We boarded ferries and took bus to get from one location to the next, figuring it out along the way. So why am I scared to ride the subway in Buenos Aires? I have read countless articles and blog posts about how easy it is to navigate but for some reason I didn’t feel like pushing myself into an uncomfortable situation.

So we walked, a long, long ways. After 2 hours of walking, we arrived sweaty and our feet hurting. We both wished we wore different shoes but I was determined to have a good time and put myself out there. We were greeted at the front and were given a drink token. About 20 people had already arrived and were mingling in the brick courtyard. We went straight inside to the bar for our free glass of wine to loosen up a bit. We sat inside at a table as more people arrived for the mixer. After about an hour of working the room inside and we still weren’t getting any friend action. Though our legs and feet were tired, perhaps sitting down wasn’t the most approachable way to meet people so we decided to stand outside in the courtyard.

After a few minutes of standing around, the group behind us made a comment about the terrible pizza in Buenos Aires. We turned around and jumped in the conversation. We had our in!

We were immediately introduced to the group and asked about our time in Buenos Aires. We told them that we had walked from San Telmo to Palermo and they all laughed, saying “that’s how American’s like to get to know a city”. We quickly exchanged Facebook information with two guys. The first was from Vancouver, Canada, had residency in London, and was living in Sao Palo, Brazil. The other was from Buenos Aires and had just moved back from Santiago, Chile to venture into the startup world. They had met through InterNations years ago while both living in Santiago, Chile and had stayed connected over the years. We also met a stunning beauty from Poland who had also just arrived in Buenos Aires and was traveling throughout South America by herself. She had a great job that allowed her to work remotely.

Later in the evening we got to chatting with an older woman, who was from Colorado. After her divorce, she bought an apartment in Buenos Aires and has been living here for 10 years. We also got to chatting with a charismatic Australian girl, who has been living here on and off for the last 3 years. She was completely fluent in Spanish and credited it to intensive language classes the second time she moved here. The first time she moved to Buenos Aires, she taught English, which made it difficult for her to learn Spanish. She gave us a list of restaurant recommendations in our neighborhood and a good pizza place in Palermo.

We decided to call it a night and left the event around midnight. We found a radio taxi and attempted to give the driver our destination who was unable to understand us. After a few minutes of trying to communicate, we successfully gave him cross streets to more well-known streets in our neighborhood. 30 minutes later and only getting lost once, we arrived close to our house. We were so surprised that our total fare was around $10USD.

The following week, I came down with a cold. Most of the week was spent inside except for a few walks around the neighborhood. After a few days of R&R, we ventured out in search of good pizza.

Before moving here, I learned that Argentina is the third highest pizza consumer in the world per capita, trailing behind USA & Italy. Needless to say, we had high hopes for great, unique Argentinean pizza. Unfortunately, after a few attempts, we have been pretty unimpressed. While the Argentinians are happy with their style of pizza, it’s pretty bland to us. The dough is thick and not very crispy. There is hardly any marinara sauce which is then covered by a copious amount of flavorless cheese. They usually throw on some ham and my least favorite, tomatoes! They add an olive on each slice, which is really the only flavor bite you get. They top it with a bit of seasoning but I still find myself having to add salt on top, which something I’ve never had to do before!

So after a few failed attempts at stumbling into any old pizza place, Drew started searching for the best pizza in Buenos Aires. Filo was the closest, about a 45-minute walk. It was also relatively nearby the famous La Recoleta Cemetery, which I suggested we go to after lunch.

Our walk took us through the downtown district of Buenos Aires. I loved seeing all of the business men and women chatting and laughing with co-workers on their lunch break eating at trendy fast causal restaurants.

Once we arrived at Filo, where we were quickly seated. The place is quirky with bright murals, yellow table clothes and a sexy women statue. We flipped through the menu and ordered some beers and the Escotia pizza, which included yummy tomato sauce, buffalo mozzarella, serrano ham, pepperoncini and fresh parmesan.  It was thin, crispy, rich and packed full of flavor.

After lunch we started our walk towards the cemetery. It was farther than I thought, but on our way we walk through several parks. As we walked through the gates of the cemetery, we were immediately transported back in time. The Recoleta Cemetery is a well maintained, massive and magnificent burial grounds for Argentina’s former rich, famous and military elite. As we wandered through the labyrinth of mausoleums, we noticed that tombs ranged from simple to lavish. Crafted out of granite, bricks, and stone, many of the mausoleums feature beautiful wrought iron gates, sculptures and stained glass windows. It’s incredible to see how people have honored their decreased ancestors with the finest materials.

Our trip to the cemetery actually brought up the conversation of how Drew and I would like to honored after we died. We both agreed cremation would be our preference however Drew also told me about this concept of being buried in a tree. You place your remains in an organic biodegradable pods or biodegradable urns which feeds the tree. I think it’s an eco-friendly option and wonderful way to be remembered.

If you are ever visiting Buenos Aires, I highly recommend visiting the Recoleta Cemetery, especially around dusk. It is free to visit the mausoleum and they offer free tours on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 11 am in English. For free tours in Spanish, visit on Tuesdays and Fridays at 11 am and 3 pm.

There are many famous graves at the Recoleta Cemetery, however none are more notable than actress and first lady of Argentina, Eva (Evita) Peró. The story of how her body came to be at its final resting place is fascinating. After her early death in 1952, her body was embalmed and Argentina began constructing a massive monument, where her body was intended to be laid to rest. During the creation of the shrine, her body remained in her office at the CGT building, however military dictatorship overtook the current regime and her body was lost for 16 years! In 1971 the military revealed that her body was buried in Milan, Italy and finally brought back to Argentina in 1974. You can now visit her at the Duarte Family tomb.

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12 Redwood Wedding Venues in the Bay Area

I can’t believe it has already been 2 years since Drew ask me to marry him on a foggy day in San Francisco! As soon as we were engaged, I started planning our dream wedding right away. Being an event planner for a wedding venue, I knew the destination would set the tone and style for our wedding, impacting our decisions throughout the planning process. Drew and I grew up in Northern California and both love the majestic redwoods surrounding our hometowns. We were living in San Francisco and narrowed our search to venues in the greater Bay Area that featured redwoods. We agreed on a Fall wedding, so I wanted a space that would allow us to have an outdoor ceremony with cocktail reception and indoor dinner and dancing. Price was an important factor for us during our search, as well as corkage fee prices, vendor requirements, and inclusions. Here is a list of some of my favorite redwood venues we found.

*Please note that the prices and policies mentioned are based on information received for 2015 and may have changed since then.

1.  The Outdoor Art Club - Mill Valley, CA

We had our wedding at the Outdoor Art Cub (OAC) in October 2015 and it was an amazing day. The OAC is not only beautiful but it checked most of the boxes on our list. Upon first visiting the space I fell in love with the enchanted garden courtyard, the historic Arts & Crafts style of architecture and of course the giant redwoods surrounding the ceremony space. The main building features a library which we used for our cake & photobooth area, a kitchen, bathrooms, and the main hall. The main hall is stunning with hardwood floors, original chandeliers and sconces, a large stone fireplace, and stage. Built in 1904, the Outdoor Art Club has been serving as a non-profit women’s club. The town of Mill Valley is absolutely adorable and is only 20 minutes outside of San Francisco. Though the OAC is in the middle of downtown Mill Valley, it is completely private. The space can hold up to 160 guests, however, that does not include an indoor dancefloor for guests. The Outdoor Art Club is ideal for events with guest counts between 100-120 people. The rental price is under $4K, which is a rare find in the bay area. The chairs (which are actually beautiful) and tables are included in the rental fee. You have access to the space from 10 AM – 11 pm (clean up and out by midnight). Since there wasn’t an event the day before we were able to arrange with the grounds keeper to set up the day before, which was so helpful! Another great thing about the OAC is you get to select all of your own vendors, except they do have a required list of caterers. This list includes at least 30 caterers to choose from at all price points. I highly recommend working with Terry with CaterMarin! A few things to consider are the noise ordinance and parking. They don’t allow for super loud or outdoor music after 9 pm, though this really wasn’t an issue for us. There is no dedicated parking, however there is plenty of metered parking that ends at 6pm. We just told our guests to arrive a ½ hour early to give plenty of time for parking. It was an incredible day that I will never forget and the Outdoor Art Club was the perfect setting for my dream wedding.

2.  Piedmont Community Hall - Piedmont, CA 

While scrolling through my Facebook feed one day, pictures of the Piedmont Community Hall caught my eye. I saved the space in my memory and when I got engaged, it was the first place I reached out to. I loved the character of this place within a pretty park setting. The Piedmont Community Center features a large brick courtyard, Mediterranean architecture, beautiful chandeliers and an adjacent Japanese tea house. Behind the hall is a small redwood grove that can be used for a ceremony, however the space can be a bit awkward. It seems like most couples had their ceremonies in front of a nearby fountain, however I didn’t like how open the space is to the public. The indoor hall can hold about 120 guest without a dance floor and the outside courtyard hosts up to 200. The circular courtyard is beautiful with a large tree in the center. Most of the photos I saw, showed events with dinner set up outside and the indoor space used for cocktail reception and dancing. Since the bay area weather can be unpredictable and temperatures drop quickly at night, I preferred to find a venue that offered dinner and dancing indoors, which is the main reason why we didn’t choose the Piedmont Community Hall as our wedding venue. The price is right though for at around $3,000 for 8 hours and it too included tables and chairs.

3.  Sequoia Retreat Center - Ben Lomond, CA

Nestled in the Santa Cruz Mountains, the Sequoia Retreat Center offers plenty of redwoods. After reaching out, I learned that this venue has a (3) day minimum and a price tag of almost $10K. Outside of my budget, I quickly nixed this one but it’s worth mentioning. They can host up to 150 guests for outdoor events and offer 12 cabins and onsite camping (at an additional fee). They do include tables, chairs, glassware, silverware, and plates if you select their caterer, which is a plus. Their award winning caterer is actually fairly reasonably priced. It seems like a very special place but it just didn’t fit out needs.

4.  Nestldown - Los Gatos, CA

This place is a stunner! The ceremony location is in a beautiful redwood grove amphitheater and the reception and dinner are located on a grass area and well maintained barn. The grounds feature acers of ponds, meadows and gardens. Nestldown is truly is a special place however the price tag is a hard one to swallow, ranging between $10K-$17K for a 9-hour event on Saturdays (including set up and breakdown). They do offer discounts for Thursday, Friday & Sunday events and their pricing does include tables and chairs. They can host up to 200 guests and have some required vendors. A few unique features of the venue include use of a vintage London taxi for the bridal party and mini train that can take your guests on a ride around the grounds during cocktail hour. It’s definitely worth viewing if you are looking for a fairytale wedding and have deep pockets!

5.  The Mountain Terrace - Woodside, CA

Located on the edge of Woodside, CA the ceremony at The Mountain Terrace takes place in a large meadow surrounded by redwoods overlooking the San Francisco Bay. Does it get any more perfect than that? The Mountain Terrace can accommodate up to 130 guests seated in either the indoor lodge or the outdoor two level deck. The lodge features a large antique bar, two stone fireplaces and an area for dancing. The rental fees for a Saturday are around $5,500 for 8 hours (including set up and breakdown). They do included tables, chairs, and an arbor for the ceremony. They are a full service facility, meaning they provide the food and beverage, however they do have the option to use another pre-approved caterer at an additional fee. Since my in-laws generously provided the wine and beer for our wedding, we were looking for a location that offered free corkage. The Mountain Terrace charges a $20 corkage fee, which is one of the main reasons we didn’t move forward with the venue.

6.  Deer Park Villa – Fairfax, CA

Originally owned by the Ghirardelli family, Deer Park Villa is set amongst towering redwoods and can accommodate 150 indoors and 350 outdoors. A Saturday wedding cost around $6,000 for a 6-hour event plus 2 hours to set up and 1 ½ hours for break down. The price includes a bridal room, tables, chairs, bridal suite and complimentary parking. They are full service facility, meaning they provide all the food and beverages. Something unique about Deer Park is they offer full wedding planning services for an additional fee.

7.  YMCA Camp Campbell - Boulder Creek, CA

Located in the Santa Cruz mountains, Camp Campbell will bring you back the simpler times of summer camp. They have a preferred 2-night minimum for events and overnight accommodations. The camp features bunk style cabins that can accommodate up to 225 guests. The rental for Friday night – Sunday morning events is $8,000 and includes tables, chairs, flatware, and silverware as well as access to activities like an archery range, basketball courts, and hiking trails. They also offer the use of a swimming pool, rock climbing and rope courses for an additional fee. They are a full service facility and the price for overnight accommodations includes breakfast & lunch on Saturday and a Sunday buffet. One thing to keep in mind with Camp Campbell is that they do not have a liquor license, so in order to offer beer and wine your event insurance must include an alcoholic beverage clause. The venue itself features an outdoor chapel which can accommodate up to 150 seated guests, and two log cabin style lodges seating between 150-250 guests. One thing to keep in mind for Camp Campbell is that they book multiple events a weekend, so you may be sharing meals with other campers, with the exception of the rehearsal and reception dinner. This place is loaded with rustic charm and nostalgia and is great for a full weekend event!

8.  Sand Rock Farm - Aptos, CA

Sand Rock Farm is a bed and breakfast providing exclusive access to ten acres of trees, gardens, meadows and fountains. They offer several indoor and outdoor venue options including a multilevel deck looking over the Shade Garden, the Redwood Grove, Walnut Grove, the Historic Carriage Barn (indoors), the 1885 Barrel Aging Cellar, an expansive Winery Meadow with a Redwood Heart Pavilion, and a renovated Redwood Milling area called the Wine Pavilion. Sand Rock Farm can accommodate up to 200 guests outside and 100 guests inside. Their pricing is based on a per person price of around $125 for a 5-hour event and includes site fees for a ceremony and reception, buffet dinner, and rentals including, tables, chairs, linens, silver, china, and glassware. Beverage pricing is separate and they have a reasonable corkage fee of $12 per bottle. The bed and breakfast has 5 guests room and all 5 can be rented for $1,000 per night. Sand Rock Farms is a very beautiful venue that offers many different venue options that practically no two weddings are the same.

9.  Amphitheatre of the Redwoods at Pema Osel Ling – Watsonville, CA 

Pema Osel Ling is a retreat outside of Santa Cruz, featuring groves of colossal redwood trees and is surrounded by rolling lawns and beautiful views of Monterey Bay. They offer multiple locations for ceremonies and receptions including Amphitheatre of the Redwoods, Bay View Meadows, Gallery Meadows, and Celebration Hall and Lawn. The highlight of course is fairy ring Amphitheatre of the Redwoods, a circle of redwoods born from one “grandmother” tree. All the roots are intertwined, creating an incredibly strong bond. The perfect metaphor for the start of a marriage!  Accommodating up to 110 guests indoors and 300 outdoors, Pema Osel Ling also has required onsite lodging for 52 and 24 camping spaces. Pricing is based on time of year and day of the week which is around $7,000 during the peak season. They offer organic onsite catering and allow hosts to provide their own alcohol at no additional fee. Meal prices include table, chairs, linens, glassware, china, and flatware. Pema Osel Ling also offers no curfew for events, which is great for late night bonfires! 

10.  The Union Hotel - Occidental, CA

Off the beaten path is the Union Hotel in Occidental California, a family owned Italian eatery, with amazing food! Ceremonies take place in a nearby redwood grove and the reception is in the Bocce Ballroom at their nearby downtown restaurant. The Bocce Room is eclectic and retro. Since weddings are not their main focus, they don’t feature their capacities or pricing online and didn’t include any of this information during our correspondence. From what I can recall, there was not a rental fee just food, beverage, and labor charges and their food pricing was incredibly reasonable. It also included tables, chairs, linens, glassware, flatware, and china. They could accommodate our guest count of 120, but the Bocce Ballroom seemed like a better fit for 75-100 people with a dancefloor. Another great feature the Union Hotel is their many properties they own throughout Occidental, which are required to rent for an additional fee nightly fee. Each property is unique, charming, and historical. The Union Hotel was actually our second choice for our wedding venue, but the ceremony and receptions locations are about ¼ a mile apart, which was for me the biggest downfall. I also really wanted to have the reception at the main property at the redwood grove, which unfortunately not an option since the food is prepared onsite at the Union Hotel. I highly recommend this location for anyone who is looking for a unique and inexpensive venue with excellent food!

11. Stones and Flowers - Ben Lomond, CA

This place is straight out of a fairytale! Stones and Flowers offers 48 hours of exclusive use of a stunning rustic barn for wedding reception and 21 cabins for your guest accommodations. The price tag for 48-hour use is around $13,000, however they do offer discounts for booking early and for booking all 21 cabins, which are an additional fee. The rental fee includes tables and chairs, bride/groom suites for getting ready, and 12-hours for set up and an 8-hour event. Ceremonies typically take place on the Ceremony Patio which features mossy curved rock wall with colorful flowers and towering redwoods. The cocktail reception take place under the redwood fairy ring and the gorgeous barn is the setting for dinner. The barn can accommodate up to 150 guests seated and features a small kitchen and a spiral staircase leading to a Juliet balcony, perfect for the bouquet toss! 

 

12.  Trocadero Clubhouse at Stern Grove – San Francisco, CA

Stern Grove is a fantastic venue for anyone looking to have a wedding in San Francisco and are on a budget. Located on the corner of 19th Avenue and Sloat, Stern Grove features a beautiful redwood grove perfect for a ceremony location, a large meadow, and the Trocadero House. The house includes grand room which can seat up to 120 guests with a working fireplace, a saloon room with a built in bar, an industrial kitchen, and an upstairs bridal suite. Built in 1892, the Victorian style has a large wrap-around porch, great for overflow space and cocktail receptions. The rental fee is around $2,500 for all day use and includes some tables and chairs, but you will have to rent additional chairs to accommodate a ceremony and reception. You select your own vendors including food and beverages. During our venue search, we visited Stern Grove and found the Trocadero to be a pretty run down and the restrooms smelled pretty bad. Since it is a public park there are a lot of rules and hidden costs, but it’s still a very affordable option for San Francisco. 


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Week One - Buenos Aires

Our trip from San Francisco to Buenos Aires was a lengthy one. It included two long layovers in El Salvador and Lima, Peru. When we arrived in Buenos Aires after 35 grueling hours, we experienced our first South American perception of “on time”, when our scheduled driver arrived an hour and half late to pick us up. Posey was so tired from our journey (or waiting for the driver) that she took a solid nap in her Sherpa. As we drove into the city we could immediately tell there was a celebration. There were happy Argentinians in buses being escorted by the local police.  We saw about 15 buses driving down the freeway with people hanging out of the windows, waving Argentina flags and chanting. Later we found out that they were local futbol fans.

When we arrived to our apartment, we were greeted by a neighbor who showed us the logistics of the apartment and made us sandwiches. I don’t know if it was exhaustion or if they were made with love, but those sandwiches were so good! We skyped both of our parents and went to bed. Lying in bed on our first night in our apartment, I cried. Fear rushed over me and I couldn’t hold back my emotions. What had I gotten us into? Would the money we saved be enough? Would we actually be able to generate some income through blogging and virtual assisting to keep us a float? My tears made me even more tired and I drifted off to sleep.

Also on our first night it rained! When I woke up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, I realized that our power had gone out. Without power meant no internet, so we couldn’t reach our landlord for help. Luckily, I brought a headlamp and after 15 minutes I found the circuit breaker hidden behind a large poster in the kitchen and turned the power back on.

The next day our goals were to find a bank, set up our new cell phones with international Sim Cards, and get groceries. We found a small grocery store right away only to find out they only take cash. One of the clerks pointed us in the right direction of an ATM. When we found the bank, the door was locked and the security guard waved his finger “NO” at us. Frustrated and confused, we went across the street to a tour group office we just found. One nice guy from the office spoke English and gave us directions to a few other banks close by.

After getting money out, we passed by a small bodega that sold sim cards or “chips”. I had done research on Argentina sim cards to get a sense of what each company offered and decide what the best company was for our needs. There are three companies that offer cellphone and data service, Movistar, Claro, and Personal. We decided to go with Movistar and put $50 Argentine pesos on each of our phones. We later found out (the hard way) that $50 only lasts for 1 week. 

Finally, we made it back to the grocery store. I love grocery shopping; however, it is a different experience in Argentina. Sometimes it feels like a game trying to figure out what some items are and at other times it can be stressful and annoying. In the States & especially California we are very fortunate to have beautiful produce year around.  So far we’ve only found very small selection of produce. In the future we’ve decided to shop at specialty stores to find better quality and wider variety of items.

I had a pretty positive first impression of our neighborhood and of Buenos Aires. It feels like you are in an Italian or French city with the very neoclassical architecture and cobblestone streets, though the vibe is a little bit grittier and more colorful. It’s not the cleanest city and there are a few stray dogs running around. There is also a lot of graffiti and street art on all the buildings. The people have been very nice and are understanding of our very broken Spanish. Our neighborhood is filled with restaurants, bars, and bodegas. There is a mix of classical antique shops and funky stores selling interesting and vibrant clothes and trinkets. The city feels very much alive especially after dark. We’ve adjusted pretty well to having a late lunch, usually around 2 or 3 pm and going out to dinner around 9 pm.

The rest of our week was pretty low key. I was busy working on my blog post, His, Hers & the Dog's Packing List and the cold Fall temperatures discouraged us from doing too much. We also wanted to be cautious about spending too much money. We did enjoy a few nice meals out including a fantastic steak dinner at a nearby restaurant called Babieca Parrilla. Though it was a great meal, our waiter seemed to make several mistakes including bringing me a different entrée and charging us more for certain items. I wish my Spanish was stronger so that I felt confident to say something. Drew suggested in the future we keep a menu in Spanish with us so that we can order our food in Spanish and double check the bill.

On Friday, we woke up to loud drumming, motorcycles, and firecrackers, which lasted from about 10 am to 5 pm. We had no idea what was going on so we went to out rooftop deck to find out. Later in the day we walked around the neighborhood to learn that the "marcha" was happening on almost every block and there were different groups representing their own flags and colors. Some streets were so crowded that we couldn't cross. It seemed as if everyone in the city had the day off and took to the streets. At first we thought it might be a protest or something to do with football. Later we found out that it was a political march of the five unions in Buenos Aires. Poor Posey was so scared from the loud noises!

On Sunday we decided to check out the famous Feria de San Telmo, an outdoor street fair with hundreds of vendors selling beautiful antiques, unique souvenirs, and art. At the Plaza Dorrego, there were several people dancing the tango and other creative street performers including windblown living statues and reggae bands. Throughout the fair there were vendors selling tasty treats likes churros, burritos, roasted nuts, dulce de leche filled crepes, grilled sausage sandwiches and empanadas. I bought a packet of incenses & a geometric sports bra and Drew got a bracelet & a wallet. It was a fun way to explore our neighborhood and end our first week.

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His, Hers & the Dog's Packing List

Our lives packed into a suitcase and backpack each!

Packing up the last 6 years of our lives was difficult but not as tough as packing our new lives into a suitcase and backpack each! Our biggest struggle was making sure that our suitcases weighed only 50 lbs. I’ve read several travel blogs that shared their minimalist approach to packing and I’ll be straight with you, that is not our case. Since we are “slow traveling”, meaning we are spending several weeks or months in one location, I didn’t feel it was necessary to pack ultra-light. Don’t get me wrong, we have downsized considerably compared to our apartment that was packed full of clothes (mostly mine) and storage filled to the brim with our “stuff”. For our trip, I found it beneficial to bring everyday items like a blow-dryer for myself and packets of Sriracha for my hubby. Here is what we decided to take with us on our adventure:

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Hers

All of my shoes and clothes. These packing cubes are great space savers!

Clothes:

Her skirt, pants and shorts

Her dresses and jumpsuit

Her shirts

Her cardigan, jackets and sweatshirts

5 Dresses (1 maxi, 2 swing, 2 midi)

1 Jumpsuit

2 Pairs of jeans

5 Pairs of pants (1 sweats, 1 jeggings, 1 leggings, 1 joggers, 1 athletic)

1 Skirt (maxi)

2 Shorts (1 denim, 1 crochet)

2 T-shirts (1 black, 1 gray)

3 Silk blouses

5 Tank tops

6 Long sleeves (1 chambray, 1 athletic, 1 dressy, 3 basic)

1 Cardigan sweater (wool)

2 Sweatshirt (1 fleece, 1 pullover)

3 Jackets (1 leather, 1 rain, 1 light army green)

1 Puffy vest (I almost didn’t bring this but I’m so glad I did!)

12 Pairs of underwear

12 Pairs of socks

3 Bras (1 black, 1 tan, 1 white)

1 Sports bra

4 Bralettes (1 tan, 1 black, 1 army green, 1 burgundy)

3.5 Bathing suits (2 full bikinis, 1 pair of black bottoms, 1 one piece)

Shoes:

Her shoes

1 Pair of black leather booties

1 Pair of sneakers

1 Pair saltwater sandals

1 Pair of waterproof hiking boots

1 Pair of flip flops

1 Pair of flats

Accessories:

Her bathing suits and accessories

2 Scarves

1 Hat

1 Beanie

1 Bandanna

1 Small box of jewelry (I'm so sad to leave my stunning engagement ring with my parents)

2 Pairs of sunglasses

Toiletries:

Her toiletries

1 Babyliss ceramic curling iron (1”, dual voltage)

1 Conair blow dryer (dual voltage)

3oz Bottle of Pureology shampoo

3oz Bottle of Pureology conditioner

3oz Bottle of Bath & Body Works body wash

3oz Bottle of Bath & Body Works lotion

3oz Bottle of hand sanitizer

1 Bottle of L'Oréal makeup remover & 1 pack of L'Oréal makeup remover wipes

1 Bottle sunscreen spray & lotion (both SPF 50)

1 Bottle of sunburn aloe spray (in case my pasty skin gets burned)

1 Bottle of EOS shaving lotion

1 Venus Swirl razor & 5 extra blades

2 Bottles of Dove spray deodorant (I swear this is the only stuff that works for me!)

1 Bottle of 100% Pure face wash

1 Bottle of Image tinted SPF moisturizer

1 Bottle of It’s a 10 miracle leave in conditioner

3oz Argan oil (I put it in an old Moroccan oil bottle, but I’ve switched to a pure Argan Oil free of dyes)

3oz Bottle of TRESemmé dry shampoo (I thought I bought a travel hairspray too, but it was actually mousse. I'll have to pick up some down here.)

1 Tube of toothpaste

1 Toothbrush

10 Tampons (I've heard they are hard to find down here)

1 Bottle of Sawyers insect repellent lotion & 1 bottle of Sawyers permethrin insect repellent clothing spray

2 Brushes, 1 comb

1 Tin of Bag Balm (great for dry hands, feet & lips)

Makeup (I use mostly BareMinerals for face and eyes)

5 Bottles of Essie nail polish (except I use Seche Vite Dry Fast Top Coat because it’s the best!)

3oz Bottle of nail polish remover

His

His bags

Clothes:

His shirts

His pants and shorts

His sweatshirt and jackets

18 T-Shirts

7 Long sleeves

5 Collared shirts

2 Tank tops

3 Pairs of basketball shorts

2 Pairs of shorts

3 Pairs of jeans

1 Pair of khakis

1 Pair of athletic pants

1 Pair of dress pants

1 Dress jacket

1 Rain jacket

1 Sweatshirt

11 Boxers

10 Socks

Shoes:

His shoes and accessories

1 Pair of boots

1 Pair of sneakers

1 Pair of flip flops

Accessories:

2 Leather belts

2 Ties

1 Bandanna

Toiletries:

His toiletries

1 Bottle of face wash

1 Bottle of body wash

1 Toothbrush

1 Tube of deodorant

1 Hair clippers with attachments (I cut Drew’s hair for him)

The Dog "Posey"

Posey's belongings

Posey loves hanging out in her pack

4 Collapsible bowls (1/4 cup to 1 cup size)

1 Collapsible water bottle

1 Sherpa dog carrier

1 Twisted bully stick (her favorite!)

1 Toy

1 Bag of Trader Joe’s Organic Chicken and Brown Rice Sticks

2 Leashes & 2 harnesses (it's a good idea to bring an extra)

1 Quart size bag filled with dog food (we'll get more food in Argentina) 

1 Year supply of flea medicine

1 Year supply of heart-worm medicine

1 Bottle of Zymox ear cleaning solution

1 Pack of Nature’s Miracle bath wipes

10 Potty pads (these came in handy during our long layovers, there wasn’t a spot for Posey to go potty in the airports)

3 Packs of doggy poop bag

1 Stress relief collar (for the flights)

1 Bottle of Comfort Zone stress relief spray (to spray in her Sherpa for flights)

3 oz Earthbath Green Tea Leaf dog shampoo

3 oz Nature’s Miracle hardwood floor cleaner (in case Posey has an accident on the beautiful original chevron hardwood floors in our new apartment)

1 Medium size dog carrier pack (for long hikes or to protect her against aggressive dogs or other sketchy situations)

1 Folder with Posey's export papers (we'll talk more on that later)

Miscellaneous

Electronics:

Our electronics

My new Canon G7X

1 Canon G7X Camera

2 32G memory cards

1 Camera charger & 1 extra battery

1 GoPro Hero

2 GoPro Attachments (GorillaPod flexible tripod & 3-Way Grip)

1 IPad (I debated about bringing this but the battery life is better than my phone which is great for traveling)

1 IPhone 5

2 Blu Life One X smartphones (we bought these for our international sim cards. So far the Blu phones have been great, especially for the price. The only thing I miss from switching from an IPhone is the original Emoji’s)  

1 TDK portable speaker (great for bringing the party anywhere and this speaker is super hardy)

1 Geekpro power converter (has 3 outlets & 4 USB ports)

2 Pairs of headphones

1 Headphone splitter (great for sharing audio between two people from one device)

2 External chargers (great for charging our phones on the go)

2 packs of batteries (AA & AAA)

2 Headlamps (came in handy when our power went out our first night)

1 Lenovo T450s Thinkpad

1 Logitech wireless mouse

1 FitBit Charge HR (to stay active and competitive with mis amigos) 

Medicine:

1 First aid kit

1 Bottle of Advil

1 Bottle of allergy pills

1 Bottle of Tums

1 Box of Dayquil/Nyquil

1 Bottle of Pepto-Bismol pills

1 Bottle of Melatonin

1 Bottle of women’s vitamins

1 Year supply of birth-control

The following were prescribed to us by our local travel clinic. Our nurse was so helpful and even prescribed me some “women related” medicines* in case of emergencies. In addition to the medicines we were prescribed, we also needed to get Typhoid Fever & Yellow Fever Immunizations. Drew needed to get his Hepatitis A vaccine and she recommended we both get Tetanus shots. We definitely recommend researching what immunizations & medicines you may need and reaching out to your local travel clinic before traveling abroad.

*Fluconazole (yeast infection medicine)

*Nitrofurantoin (bladder infection)

Atovaquone Proguanil (malaria pills)

Ciprofloxacin (travelers’ diarrhea pills)

Acetazolamide (altitude sickness pills)

Random:

1 Small accordion file (to keep our important documents safe including passports, immunization records & copies)

2 Notebooks (to journal in) & 2 small notebooks (great for asking locals to write directions or words you may not understand).

1 Coloring book (a fun gift I got from my best friend for my birthday!)

1 Box filled with pencils & pens

2 Books

2 Spanish phrase books

1 Planner (to keep life organized!)

1 Small box of safety pins

1 Eye mask

2 TSA locks

1 Money belt

1 Double size mosquito net

10 Packing cubes

6 Gallon and 6 quart size Ziploc bags (these always come in handy)


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My Top 25 San Francisco Experiences

This weekend, Drew and I packed up our apartment. It was very stressful and brought up a lot of memories of my life in San Francisco. My dream of moving to San Francisco started when I was a child. My mom and I would visit my aunt Maura, who lived near Haight-Ashbury. We would ride the carousal in Golden Gate Park, have Chinese take-out, and visit the zoo. In 2008, I made the move from my hometown of Auburn, CA to the city to start college. Since then, new adventures unfolded. Here is a recap of my favorite experiences I've had in the city by the bay.  

1. LoveFest - 2008

When I first moved to San Francisco, my roommate and I became fast friends with our neighbors across the hall and upstairs. We got a big group together for LoveFest, a technoparade and festival included 25 floats with DJ’s and go-go dancers. We dressed in our finest "rave attire" and headed to the Civic Center to be in the heart of the festival. We danced and drank in the streets all-day and ended the night by rallying at Ruby Skye for the Benny Benassi show. Unfortunately LoveFest ended in 2009, but I’m so happy I have unforgettable memories and a few pictures to remind me of my favorite San Francisco festival!

2. Riding the Mexican Party Bus - 2008

What a random night! When I first moved to the city, I was a waitress at a small restaurant named Globe. One night, a co-worker invited me to celebrate his birthday aboard El Volado. We drove the Mexican party bus all over the Mission drinking tequila, salsa dancing and bar hopping. It was an experience I won't forget, including the hangover! The next day, I had a rough drive home to visit my family for Thanksgiving.

3. Academy of Sciences - 2009

Around the corner from first my apartment in the Inner Sunset, I discovered my favorite museum. Formerly known as the Steinhart Aquarium, it reopened in 2008 as the Academy of Sciences. I loved spending my afternoons exploring the indoor rain forest filled with frogs, birds and butterflies! The Academy of Sciences has an extensive aquarium that includes coral reefs, tidepools and African penguins. They even feature Claude, a rare albino alligator. It’s a beautiful natural history museum that cannot be missed for anyone interested in learning more about the earth and its inhabitants.

So cute!

4. Bay to Breakers - 2010

San Francisco is weird, which is why I love living here. Bay to Breakers is the best way to experience San Francisco's free spirit. I've been to B2B several times but my favorite experience was in 2010 when my friend Amanda and I let out our inner flower child out, body paint and all!

Blondes have more fun! Nuff' said! 

5. Scoring my own apartment - 2010

I am one lucky girl! In the spring of 2010, I found a well-priced one-bedroom apartment in a great neighborhood. When I attended the open house, I found out that the current tenant was trying to get out of her lease early and was in charge of finding the new tenant. She was trying to sell her furniture, including a TV, for a $1,000. The apartment was small and funky but it was perfect for a single girl on a budget. I was one of 27 applying for the place! To stand out, I wrote her a handwritten note explaining why this was my dream apartment and why she should choose me. The note and my offer to purchase her furniture worked and I moved to Russian Hill in July 2010!

6. Polk Street and the Marina – 2010

In 2010, I met a new group of friends who were from my hometown. Erica and Kenzie had recently moved to the same neighborhood and we started hanging out regularly. One night the girls invited me to go out to Kozy Kar, a bar on Polk Street. When I arrived, I found them on a shag-covered waterbed with Matt, Erica’s twin brother and two other guys they knew from high school. It was an unforgettable night because one of those guys happened to be my future husband! As more of our hometown friends started moving to the city and we met new friends, our group became bigger. We still love a good night playing Pop-A-Shot at Mauna Loa or dancing to 90's hip-hop at Comet Club.  

7. My Epic Gaga Halloween Costume - 2010

In 2010, my obsession with Lady Gaga was at a fever pitch! For Halloween I decided to make Gaga’s Mickey Mouse outfit from the “Paparazzi” music video. I purchased a white leotard and leggings from American Apparel. I hand-dyed the fabric yellow and hand-painted each Mickey. To complete the look, I bought black mouse glasses on E-Bay. This is my favorite costume and reminds me of an epic weekend long Halloween celebration.

Papa-paparazzi

8. DKS Alice & Wonderland Formal - 2010

During my time at San Francisco State, I had the privilege of being apart of Delta Kappa Sigma, a local sorority. During the Fall 2010 semester, I was nominated to be the event planner for our formal. My team and I came up with the theme “Fall Down the Rabbit Hole”. To complete the look, I found some amazing Alice and Wonderland rental props from a local store and my parents created a flamingo croquet course! The event was a hit and the start of my event-planning career. 

9. NYE Party at Mark Hopkins - 2010 & 2011

Our group of friends had two amazing New Years celebrations at the Mark Hopkins. The first year we rented a standard hotel room. When we arrived we were upgraded to a suite, which included a handwritten note and chocolate covered strawberries. We felt so VIP that we decided to splurge on a suite the following year. Once again we were upgraded and this time it was to the penthouse suite! We rang in a memorable New Year with views of the fireworks exploding over the bay and lots of champagne. 

10. Getting Posey! - 2011

Drew and I had only been dating a few months, when we decided to get a puppy together. One day, Drew found a listing on eBay Classifieds for a litter of Yorkshire Terriers puppies in the area. Since Drew was away on business, I invited Kenzie to come with me to look at the puppies. When we got to the owner's house we were told they had two girls available. The first was sweet and mellow and the other was spunky and playful. The decision was a tough one but in the end we ended up with the best dog, who is not only spunky and playful but also sweet and mellow. 

11. Graduating from SF State – 2011

After 5 years in college I finally graduated with a degree in Hospitality and Tourism Management! Even though San Francisco State was not your stereotypical college experience, I made the most of it by getting involved. I joined clubs, rushed a sorority, and volunteered for my department. I will always look back at my time at San Francisco State and be proud of my accomplishments.

Drew and I celebrating my graduation at the W Hotel in San Francisco.

12. German party - 2011

My friends and I pretty much use any excuse to have a dress up party, so naturally it was essential to have a German party for Erica and Matt's birthday. The party was full of sexy beer maidens, men in lederhosen, and delicious bratwurst. After too many keg stands, Drew fell asleep outside and got the nickname “Hans Hammburger”.

13. Studio 54 Halloween Party at CLIFT - 2011

When I worked at the CLIFT hotel, I was invited to attend their annual Halloween Party. The famous Redwood Room was given a 1970’s makeover for the Studio 54 soiree. I channeled my inner Jerry Hall, drank Harvey Wallbangers, and boogied to disco hits like "Ring My Bell" with my new co-workers. I’m glad I went home early because several of my co-workers almost got fired for having an after party in one of the hotel suites!

14. 49er game at Candlestick - 2011

My family and I have been Niner’s fan my whole life and to be able to attend a game with my dad was a dream come true! Drew's dad, Chris, also came and set us up with an awesome tailgate party including brawts and beer. The 49ers were playing the Rams, which was an easy win and our seats were incredible thanks to Drew's uncle Bruce. Thanks again Bruce! 

15. Free The Book of Mormon Tickets - 2012

When I was a Catering Manager at the CLIFT, StubHub approached me. They wanted to set up a will call post at the hotel for their much anticipated show, The Book of Mormon, playing at the Curran Theater next door. I was able to be creative and sell them an unused storage space near the elevators at a fair price. As a thank you, they offered me free tickets! Drew and I were headed to the hottest show of the year. Of course that was before Hamilton came along! The Book of Mormon is an insanely funny and witty show with a wickedly talented cast. I would definitely recommend this musical everyone!

16. Running at Crissy Field - 2013

For a brief period of time, I was a runner. I was training for Avenue of the Giants half marathon and on Saturdays I would run from my apartment to the base of the Golden Gate Bridge and back. It was such a peaceful experience that I will never forget! Though I've decided running is just not my thing, I still like to walk Crissy Field as often as possible. 

17. America’s Cup at STFYC - 2013

I started working at the yacht club at the beginning of America’s Cup in 2013. Though I was never really into sailing, it was an unreal experience being in the heart of it. The members celebrated by spray champagne all over the clubhouse when Oracle came from behind 8-1 to win the cup!

18. “T” Party - 2013

Like I said, my friends and I love a good costume party and for my friend Theresa's birthday, we had "T" party. For weeks I searched the internet looking for the perfect costume. Daenerys Targaryen was too much effort at the time, so I picked another sexy character, Lara Croft's "Tomb Raider". I nailed this costume for only $25, however the prize for best costume has to go Andrew for his Tapatío costume. So clever! 

Tomb Raider

19. Drew’s 10,000-Day party - 2013

Since Drew doesn't like to make a big deal about his birthday, I wanted to do something special for him when his  10,000th day came along. We decided to host a party at the Pussy Cat Lounge in Bruno's, a club in the Mission. We invited our friends and family and had our own private bar with tons of food and great tunes. It was magical night and definitely goes down as the unique event I've hosted! 

Celebrating Drew's 10,000 Day with his family, Gayle, Spencer, Chris, Kristin, and Bryan. 

YOTTO - You only turn 10,000 once!

20. The Speakeasy – 2014

For my 27th birthday Drew took me to the Speakeasy, a theatrical Prohibition-era underground cabaret where you are encouraged to interact with the actors. The day of the event we were instructed to meet a women with a yellow umbrella in front of the Asian Art Museum and ask her, "How's the weather today?” She gave us directions to Joe's clock shop, an old San Francisco storefront that use to hide a real speakeasy! Once inside the secret entrance, we were transported to the roaring 20's, drank old fashions and played craps.  Honestly this was probably the most entertaining and unique experience I ever had in the city. I wish Boxcar Theater was still doing this production however they still have something similar called Club 1923.

21. Engagement at Crissy Field - 2014

When I was working at the yacht club, Drew and Posey came to surprise me after work one day. Once I saw Drew standing at the beach in a suit, my heart started racing with anticipation. Drew got down on one knee and asked me to marry him in front of the Golden Gate Bridge. Of course I said yes and afterwards we enjoyed a bottle of champagne and played with Posey on the beach. Even though we had a visit from Karl the Fog, it was such a special day!

22. Bouge Cruise to McCovey Cove - 2014

Summer 2014, we surprised our friend Ryan for his 30th Birthday with a private cruise. It was a beautiful day to be on the bay and at McCovey Cove outside the Giants game. Our bouge cruise was a major highlight of our time in San Francisco!

That's a good lookin' crew! 

23. Becoming a Dynasty - 2014

It's been incredible being a Giants fan while living in San Francisco! We’ve had some epic World Series celebrations in the 2010, 2012, and 2014. On one of our first dates, Drew took me to a NLCS game. While I waited before the game for Drew and his family outside AT&T Park, I ran into some co-workers. When I told them about my date, they said, “You should marry that guy!” I guess I’m a good listener!

24. Divas Night - 2015

For my bachelorette party, I decided to have a karaoke night in the city. I wanted all of my friends to dress up as famous "diva" singers. We started with dinner at Bitters Bock, & Rye, a delicious BBQ restaurant, that's great for groups. Afterwards we went to Pandora Karaoke lounge. At first, some of my friends were a little bit hesitant about karaoke. Once we were in our own private room and bottle service arrived, they stared to get into it. I rapped a pretty sweet rendition of "Fancy", so I dressed as my girl Iggy Azalea. By the end we were all screaming Spice Girls & No Doubt that people in the hallway could hear us! We ended the night with an amazing Moscow Mule night cap at Smuggler Cove, a pirate bar! I felt so special having my closest friends in the city to celebrate me and is a night I will never forget! 

Ke$ha, Dolly Parton, Gwen Stefani, Madonna, Iggy Azalea, & Baby Spice (Clockwise)

I be the I-G-G-Y put my name in bold!

25. Outside Lands - 2015

We popped Drew’s music festival cherry for his 29th birthday at Outside Lands last year! We spent three days of rocking out legends like Elton John and Billy Idol. We danced to favorites like Sam Smith, Mumford & Sons, and Black Keys and jammed to new bands like Glass Animals, Django Django, and Leon Bridges. Even better, we spent an amazing beer and food filled weekend with family and friends. Bryan and Kristin, Drew's brother & sister-in-law (and now mine) came Friday from Rocklin, CA and my brother’s girlfriend, Kelsey came for the weekend from Eugene, OR. We were wiped out for about week afterwards, but the experience was definitely worth the pain and high ticket price. 

 

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Leap of faith...South America bound!

We are finally taking the leap! After many years of dreaming and saving, my husband Drew and I have quit our jobs, sold our belongings and booked a one-way flight to Buenos Aires, Argentina! We are leaving our family, friends and beloved San Francisco for an adventure of a lifetime. We aren’t leaving everything behind though. Our dog Posey is joining us on our trip abroad! Most people are excited, envious and think we are a little crazy! Especially when we tell them we are bringing our 13 lb. Yorkie.

Why are we doing this? How can we afford to spend the next year aboard? How is it possible to bring our dog? Will we be working? What are our plans for afterwards? Our hope with this blog is to share our journey, passions, tips and tricks with you!

After my study abroad trip to Florence, Italy, I knew I had to live abroad again. Luckily when I told Drew of my dreams to live in another country, he was ready to take the leap, in more ways than one! Drew popped the question in May 2014 and during our engagement, we loved spending our weekends talking and dreaming about what our lives would be like living in a foreign country. We wanted to become fluent in a language, explore new cultures, try new foods, meet friends from all over and see the beauty this world has to offer. With these priorities in mind, we explored many options and finally decided to go to Buenos Aires in April 2016, about 6 months after we got married. We spent the next two years saving for our trip and planning our dream wedding!

Once we chose Argentina as our destination, we had to decide what to do with Posey! Would she come with us or would it be best to leave her with family? Drew and I wrestled with the idea for a long time. We ultimately decided we couldn’t imagine our daily life without Posey and we would find a way to make it work. We wanted to make sure she would be safe not only on the flight there but throughout our travels. Fortunately, there are plenty of great information online about the required paperwork and helpful tips for flying with pets. It has been a little harder finding information about traveling throughout South America with a dog. Part of this blog will be to share Posey’s adventures and her advice for traveling abroad.

One of the biggest challenges of we faced in making our long term trip abroad into reality was money! Would we get jobs there or search for something less conventional? I was unhappy with my corporate event planning job and tired of working long hours and weekends. I started looking into jobs that would allow me to work remotely and came across virtual assisting. Being a virtual assistant fits many of my needs and plays to my strengths. I started Tip Top Planning, combining my two biggest passions in life, event and traveling planning.

I hope you will be inspired and follow our journey! Subscribe to our mailing list below.

Sometime the only form of transportation is a leap of faith.
— Margaret Shepard

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